How would your bedroom look if you (re-)designed it for rest & romance?
“Sometimes we forget about the bedroom, we concentrated our effort in our living room, dining, but the bedroom is our sanctuary, the place where you can have a great sleep zzzzzzz” – @1happymess
I’ve spent the last few years making our bedroom calm and empty except for some pretty things to wake up to like art, small bedside tables and a lamp each.
What’s your opinion on technology in the bedroom?
Over a year ago I took it a step further and banned our phones & electronics from the bedroom too arguing they were counter to restful sleep (and distracting, plus they also emit little lights that I’m convinced disturb us).
FYI: while this change was relatively seamless because we both like watching TV etc on our couch, it was not without argument. For the first 2 weeks my Mr would bring his phone in every night and I got mad…until I finally asked him “Why?”. He grumbled that he gets up earlier and didn’t want to stumble 20m out of the bedroom to turn it off. “Oh?” I said and I bought us an old school battery powered, no light emitting, alarm clock. Argument over.
OK, that’s technology but what about those piles that well, pile up, you might ask?
Is your bedroom the household’s storage unit?
From our work with clients (we’ve seen a LOT of bedrooms), we’ve also understood that for many of us the bedroom can become a storage unit.
We get how it happens. Most of us want the public spaces to be neat when people come over, so somehow stuff just lands in our bedroom. We’re here to help you with some solutions. One part of that is to decide to make your bedroom about rest & romance. Sleep and sex/intimacy. That means no ‘not done’ piles that weigh on your head when you sleep.
Don’t be upset if it is. Let’s do something about it, together, with some of our Happy House Rules.
Do you have 5minutes? Take it and start into those piles. Just start small and repeat…over the next week. Then come up with ways to ensure ‘everything in its easy place‘ & letting go.
I decided to stop using the bedroom for stuff that doesn’t have a home.
Right now ours doesn’t have many piles (except for two pieces of art that I want to hang) and it’s deliberate. Where does our ‘extra’ stuff go’? Pretty much everywhere else. I make sure we have a lot of storage. We have a few pieces that are in a storage garage and we use our flat’s public spaces & the top of closets and shelving in the bathroom/laundry area to keep our excess stuff. I have a hamper in the bathroom. It seems to make it easier to get rid of things.
I KNOW the reality is our bedrooms often seem like the only place we can put surplus stuff.
I just want to introduce the idea that they don’t have to be. I bet you’ll sleep a lot better, too.
So: How would your bedrooms look if you (re-)designed it with rest & romance in mind (and sleep & sex). What would you change? Would you allow ‘technology’ or not? And would it make letting stuff go easier?
Let us know in the comments what you think – we’d love to hear your thoughts!
If this inspired you to act please email us before & after pics, we’d love to share them with the world…or join us on instagram and share your bedroom pictures and what changes you are making just use the hashtag #happyhouserules + @apartmentdiet.
Luckily, my partner and I agree on no TV in the bedroom. He does use his iPhone as an alarm but we leave our iPads in the office recharging. Our bedroom is uncluttered and calm, often with our orange moggie snoring happily on the end of the bed. We’re happy; he’s happy. Rest and romance; yes, please.
Uncluttered & calm…and a snoring moggie ;)
Glad you’re happy & with a happy bedroom, Libby. Would love to see pics too.